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I wanted to conform, but…..

[et_pb_section admin_label="section"] [et_pb_row admin_label="row"] [et_pb_column type="4_4"][et_pb_text admin_label="Text"]As a kid, I wanted to conform. I didn’t have a penchant for sticking my neck out and standing out this way in society. Oh, you went to Europe? Yes. Where all did you go? Germany and Denmark. That’s it, just two countries? Ya….. I was cycling. :)…

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Of Being Single

[et_pb_section admin_label="section"] [et_pb_row admin_label="row"] [et_pb_column type="4_4"][et_pb_text admin_label="Text"]I want to share a few thoughts on being single. I mean being single after the typical Indian marriageable age. For most Indian communities "marriageable age" passes once you cross late 20s and early 30s. It has now been a few years since I wrote my 'How To Be Awesome By 30' post,…

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The False Sense of Safety Due To Social Acceptance 

[et_pb_section admin_label="section"] [et_pb_row admin_label="row"] [et_pb_column type="4_4"][et_pb_text admin_label="Text"]Parent:"In India one shouldn't cycle. The traffic is too risky" Me:"in India one shouldn't do a lot of things cause it is too risky for eg: crossing the roads" *parent agrees whole-heartedly* From a long time I have been noticing that social acceptance makes people FEEL SAFE. Note that it only makes them feel…

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I Am Not In Pursuit Of Happiness. Here’s Why…

[et_pb_section admin_label="section"] [et_pb_row admin_label="row"] [et_pb_column type="4_4"][et_pb_text admin_label="Text"]Random conversation in a yoga center far, far away, Monk: At the end of the day, you should be happy Me: *looks unconvinced* Monk: isn't it? Me: Really? Is happiness the most important thing?  Monk: I don't know I also didn't know then. At least I couldn't articulate at the time my problem with making 'Happiness' the…

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Contextual Trust

[et_pb_section admin_label="section"] [et_pb_row admin_label="row"] [et_pb_column type="4_4"][et_pb_text admin_label="Text"]One of the things that are fundamental in life are your thoughts. And part of my spiritual journey and life is to think correctly. It means no rote repetition of what people keep saying but looking at the realities. Trust is a word often used, but mostly in a very wrong…

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Experiences with Long Term Value

[et_pb_section admin_label="section"] [et_pb_row admin_label="row"] [et_pb_column type="4_4"][et_pb_text admin_label="Text"]There are some experiences that have a more fundamental impact on your life while others last in your mind for a while but they don't majorly really change anything much. Should be noted that you may be thrilled, get mental kick over something but fundamentally it may change nothing. So there…

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Give Logic the Right Place – Heart v/s Mind Situations

[et_pb_section admin_label="section"] [et_pb_row admin_label="row"] [et_pb_column type="4_4"][et_pb_text admin_label="Text"]Have you tried to logically think out life situations? But your heart says something else. It can be a toss up and a situation that a lot of us may have faced at some time or the other. The proverbial heart v/s mind scenario. Over time I have realized that this situation…

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Being the Family Extra – An Open Letter to my Family

[et_pb_section admin_label="section"] [et_pb_row admin_label="row"] [et_pb_column type="4_4"][et_pb_text admin_label="Text"]Dear Family, Recently something shook all of us up. The news was shocking and we were all very concerned for the people involved. It was sensitive and it was something that we wish never would have happened. But it did, and we were informed of it. Once being informed as part of the…

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Why I never wanted to say I was Spiritual

[et_pb_section admin_label="section"] [et_pb_row admin_label="row"] [et_pb_column type="4_4"][et_pb_text admin_label="Text"] 2014 for me has been a significant year. This is the year I have come out of the closet, a little. Usually people come out of the closet with socially unaccepted secrets like they are gay or are HIV +ve or some such matter. The reason they were not talking…

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